Monday, August 4, 2008
Get off My Mommy Mr!
Just as it’s getting good, just as the a$$ smacking and hair pulling has reached its exciting peak, the kids walk in while backs are getting broken like twigs. Suddenly, Nay-Nay & Lil Man are scared of telephone poles and see visions of mommy being stabbed by a big black stick. But, what do you do when your children catch you having sex? The last thing you want is for your child to grow up scared and sexually confused because they seen mommy was blowing daddy like a Nintendo game so what do you do?
An article on MSNBC states that you should clarify things, by using words and feelings, words like:
‘This is somebody I love. This is somebody I can see as my happily-ever-after person’ put it into context so he knows it was not something done casually.” (If it was casual, this is much more problematic.) It’s important for his mother to be a parent, not a best friend, not to share too much information, but she can have an open dialogue.
Unfortunately, we live in the age of jump offs and bust it babies so you chances of someone being the happily ever after person are slim to none. You may even want to have your significant other speak to your child, but how would you feel looking at the man who stuck his 3rd leg up their mother’s a*s?
Another important thing is letting the child know that they are the most important person in your life. Because many times we tend to place our children second to things that may or may not be more important, like work, doctor appointments and first dates.
In closing the most important thing you should take from this article… buy locks for your doors.
Friday, August 1, 2008
Inside the Mind of a Cheating Man
Have you ever wondered what goes through the mind of a guy who cheated on his girlfriend/wife? Well today in this blog I’m going to let you know the thought process of cheating on your girl or wife. If he’s good you’ll never find out, if he’s not you’ll find out sooner than either of you want. Get ready to enter the mind of a man.
First let me just say cheating can be different things but for the sake of this blog I’m referring to sleeping with someone else. As a man I can’t sleep with anyone unless they let me, so some where in my twisted mind was never my fault when I did decided to cheat. Here is what I think
I need to make sure that I won’t get caught and my girl will never find out so I ask myself a few things
Will her and my girl ever cross paths?
Does she hang anywhere my girl hang?
Are they from the same town?
I’m trying to do as little as possible with this other woman because I love my girl, so what does this other woman want me to do since she gave me some?
Do I have to call her?
Does she expect me to take her out?
Can I get away with a bunch of Blockbuster nights?
Does she know I have a girl?
We don’t really want to lie, so the best girls to cheat with are the ones who know you’re cheating.
If she doesn’t know, you have to ask yourself, How believable is my lie?
Is she cuter than my girl/wife?
It doesn’t really matter if she’s giving it up, but the cuter she is the more risk we’ll take.
If she’s cuter we’ll lie if we have too, say what we’ll have too, and do what we have to in order to “seal the deal”
If she’s not the other woman will just have to get it when we can give it. [Which most of the time is why men get caught sleeping with the ugly one. Because we get sloppy since we don't give a damn
Police: Woman endured 'night of terror'
MERRILLVILLE | Police said a Merrillville woman suffered a "night of terror," four broken ribs and numerous lacerations at the hands of her boyfriend earlier this week.Marlon Dandre Stringfellow, 40, is accused of beating the victim, striking her with a hatchet and hitting her with a car before raping her at their home in the 6000 block of Harrison Street, police said.
Stringfellow was charged Wednesday in Lake County Criminal Court with attempted murder, rape, battery, intimidation, sexual battery and two counts of criminal confinement.
Merrillville police Detective George Fields said the more than eight-hour incident began about 11:30 p.m. Monday and ended at 7:42 a.m. Tuesday.
Fields said the victim initially left the home after Stringfellow became agitated.
Stringfellow was waiting for her in their yard when she returned, telling the victim to get out of the vehicle and they would work out their problems, Fields said.
Fields said the victim got out of the car, but Stringfellow started striking her and forced her into the passenger seat of the car.
Stringfellow then drove to a church on 57th Avenue, where he told the victim to get out of the car and disrobe, Fields said.
The victim obeyed the orders, but Stringfellow began hitting her with a hatchet, causing lacerations to the victim's legs, arms and forehead, Fields said.
He said Stringfellow threw the victim back into the vehicle and continued driving. The car stopped near a gas station at the 49th Avenue and Broadway intersection, where the victim fled the car seeking help.
Stringfellow hit the victim with the car while she was running toward the gas station, Fields said. The impact threw the victim over the top of the car, Fields said, and broke four of her ribs. Fields said Stringfellow then dragged the victim back into the car.
Stringfellow drove back to their home on Harrison Street and raped the victim, Fields said.
Following the rape, the victim was able to notify someone of the situation, and that person contacted authorities, Fields said.
The victim was transported to Methodist Hospitals Southlake Campus in Merrillville for her injuries. Fields said she received about 50 stitches and lost a large amount of blood during the incident.
Girls Look So Good But Their Brain Is Not Ready
First off lets be real with each other, there is something in the food that is making our teens look grown before they are grown. I’ve been getting a lot of comments in regard to my Lil Mama fetish but she’s legal , so lets take Teyana Taylor & R-Kelly for instance.
I’m sure we have all had the convo on whether we still support R-Kelly, well I don’t not because he slept with a young girl but because he is sleeping with young girls… it’s his thing. That’s where Teyana Taylor comes into play, the young girl is sexy, but thats where it should stop, you shouldn’t stare, you shouldn’t entertain the thought just blame the steroids they put in the food and keep it moving.
But when we state the obvious, the girl is sexy, it comes with a weird look, or thought but she is, yet we are scared to say the truth because it may be inappropriate. So what should I do lie, or hide my thoughts when something is staring me in the face? No, I won’t I’ll make my comments and I’ll try to get everyone to my stance that its okay to admire sexiness, but we have to know where to draw the line. R-Kelly would try to piss on her, which is wrong, but I’ll just think she’s going to make some man or woman happy when she finally turns legal.
Are our teens too sexy?
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