The Art of Choking During Sex ( Exotic Asphyxiation)

Many people believe that a lower supply of oxygen to the brain is supposed to enhance your sexual sensations and make it easier to orgasm. Maybe that’s why females like being choked so much. Sad part is many people don’t understand the pleasure they can receive from being choked. So without coming off sounding like a sicko here are 6 essentials to the art of choking during sex.


The Pseudo Choke - One of my twitter friends says “OMG!! I wish a ninja would choke me out during sex… thats creepy!” I’ll admit that when my boy told me he choked his bust it baby I was a bit freaked out, but like the inquisitive man that I am, I decided to try it with my girlfriend at the time. So during sex, while digging the LongBoy inside of her, I applied the pseudo choke, to which she replied why didn’t you choke me harder! I’ve been hooked choking women ever since.

The pseudo choke is when a man places his hand around the woman’s neck without applying any pressure or very little pressure. This provides a psychological effect during sex, because more than likely it’s going to turn her on. Just make sure she’s comfortable with you, because if it’s a jump off who you don’t really know well enough to be sleeping with in the first place it could end the sex ASAP.

Off Guard Aggressive Choke: I’m not going to pussy foot around and go in order of aggression. (pun intended) This is when right in the middle of regular aggressive, a hand is placed on her neck and she is choked very hard to the point where she can’t breathe at all. The key to this maneuver and staying off death row for murder, is to not do it for longer than 5 seconds.

The Medium Choke: This is when you apply a little bit of pressure during your choke. Enough so they feel you and long enough for them to reach up and grab your hand to let you know. An added bonus is the kiss her while your hand is around her neck. Women love kisses and this just enhances the pleasure of it all.

The Public Playful Choke: This is when you wrap your hand around her neck in public, for the whole world to see. If you lay the pipe right then she’ll know that when you two get alone it’s on and popping. It’s a more kinky way of saying “if it’s all right with you we f*cking.”

The Multi Hand Choke: This method is used most by women when they’re on top. For some reason they think it’s okay to place their hands around a guys neck. Note to the guys, no matter how soft or hard you choke a woman, if she chokes you, she’s going to choke the ish out of you.

The Choke With Assistance: Once you figured out you and your mate like exotic affixation then it might be possible to bring in some help. By help I mean a scarf or some other form a prop. Besides one of the best dates a couple can have is a trip into a sex shop. Tons of fun.

In all before you start choking, know your partner. It’s no guarantee she’s going to like it, and if she say she won’t like it, more than likely she’ll like it if it’s done right. I find the best method is to apply a little bit of pressure just so she knows you’re there, but not too much pressure where she can’t breathe. The last thing you want to do is get time for busting a nut. Choking can be a very sexy and intimate way to turn your lover on if it’s done right.