Just as it’s getting good, just as the a$$ smacking and hair pulling has reached its exciting peak, the kids walk in while backs are getting broken like twigs. Suddenly, Nay-Nay & Lil Man are scared of telephone poles and see visions of mommy being stabbed by a big black stick. But, what do you do when your children catch you having sex? The last thing you want is for your child to grow up scared and sexually confused because they seen mommy was blowing daddy like a Nintendo game so what do you do?
An article on MSNBC states that you should clarify things, by using words and feelings, words like:
‘This is somebody I love. This is somebody I can see as my happily-ever-after person’ put it into context so he knows it was not something done casually.” (If it was casual, this is much more problematic.) It’s important for his mother to be a parent, not a best friend, not to share too much information, but she can have an open dialogue.
Unfortunately, we live in the age of jump offs and bust it babies so you chances of someone being the happily ever after person are slim to none. You may even want to have your significant other speak to your child, but how would you feel looking at the man who stuck his 3rd leg up their mother’s a*s?
Another important thing is letting the child know that they are the most important person in your life. Because many times we tend to place our children second to things that may or may not be more important, like work, doctor appointments and first dates.
In closing the most important thing you should take from this article… buy locks for your doors.
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