Put A Ring On Her

Waiting is a very hard thing to do, since all of us are now use to living in what I like to call the microwave generation. Who wants to wait? We don’t wait for food, fast food helps us there, we don’t wait to albums, we download them one week before they are released, and we don’t wait to cash our checks, direct deposit does it for us. We are in the right now age of time. So why is sex any different.

Back to the topic, I really respect this female’s decision to wait for the right one. She told me that she plans on being her husbands personal freak, but I can’t think of any man who want to settle with a novice in the field of being a freak. Being a sexual intellectual requires, a lot of experimenting with a long term partner or numerous partners. It takes learning your body, and trying things to see if you like it, and once you realize you like something you have to keep doing it in order to get it right. Most females will tell you that their first time sucks, and when it comes to marriage is for the rest of your life, starting it off with sex that sucks might not be sure a good idea. Especially when Tasha from down the block can do all the things you’re learning a million times better than you. Besides what if he puts the ring on your finger expecting to get a freak in the future and instead gets a dud? Worst yet, what if he can’t satisfy her sexual desire, then what?

Chances are if she does land a guy who is willing to wait he won’t be into much sexual intellectualism. I get emails from women who tell me their man doesn’t like all the sexual stuff written on here, when she loves doing porn star moves in the bedroom. Let’s face it, most men can’t compete with the sex drive of a woman, and mostly leaves the woman wanting more.

This lady whom I only know as Sunshine08 is taking a major risk, which will have a wonderful reward at the end if she’s successful, but the reality of the situation is that if waiting was the business we would all still be waiting. I believe the world has changed and sexual behavior was passed down from generation to generation and we should learn from the mistakes of our ancestors. Many people are stuck in bad, unhealthy relationships and marriages because of their family values. I say why be miserable? Don’t get me wrong I look forward to being married one day, but I would never “buy a car without test driving it first.” Sure I’ll wait until the time is right, until my boo and I have genuine feelings for one another because that’s what I want, but locking in on a long term contract based off a sales pitch or a dream? It’s not for me.